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Get Unstuck- Pouring Enthusiasm into All You Do

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

“Take on today with a vibrant waterfall of enthusiasm pouring into everything you do. Unsure of what you will encounter leap into action and stay the course with zeal. Then peacefully settle into a sea of fulfillment at day’s end where your spirit rejuvenates.” Beth Tabak

Procrastination is excruciating! While it is important to get to the source of procrastination and decide on a course of action we can make great strides by simply shifting to pour enthusiasm into everything we do. As Viktor Frankl stated: “Everything can be taken from a man but …the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Here we take a look at the zeal of a waterfall and what we can learn about making the choice to overcome procrastination with enthusiasm. At the end of the article visit the video, Behind the Waterfall, by Natural States by clicking the link in the author’s box to tie it all together as an extra treat.

Begin from a Place of Peace- Every waterfall begins in a place of peacefulness. Start your day being in a place of peace, trust, and enthusiasm for the day. Dicky Fox in the Movie Jerry Maguire has the perfect attitude: “I love the mornings! I clap my hands every morning and say, ‘This is gonna be a great day!’”

Be Authentic- Get to know and stay connected with who you are. Leverage your strengths, passions, knowledge, and values. When you do, things begin to flow. You experience less struggle and more ease. Water will attempt to be nothing less than what it is.

“Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

Take Educated Risks to Leap into Action- Overcoming procrastination means taking leaps of faith similar to a waterfall leaping away from the security of land and its path as it goes over the edge unaware. While a plan is key there comes a time to let go of fear and initiate enthusiasm. You may not know where you will land, who you will meet, or what you will encounter but you have what it takes to handle it, readjust, continue forward, and feel great about the progress.

“Act enthusiastic and you will be enthusiastic.” Dale Carnegie

Be Enthusiastic in Everything You Do- Whether it be a handshake, answering the phone, working on a project, hugging your spouse, going on a walk or run, listening to the needs of a child or client, communicating with a co-worker, cleaning off your desk, playing a round of golf, or taking a rejuvenation break— do it with enthusiasm! See the gift in each action.

“Life’s blows cannot break a person whose spirit is warmed at the fire of enthusiasm.” Norman Vincent Peale

Overcome Obstacles, Readjust, and Continue Forward- Know that you have the enthusiasm, resources, and what it takes to overcome obstacles. Notice how waterfalls crash across boundaries and into obstructions. Due to its fluidity it is able to readjust direction to continue moving in a forward direction although it may now be on a new path. Avoid being rigid in procrastination. Be fluid by seeing the abundance of possibilities and choices while believing in yourself.

“Enthusiasm releases the drive to carry you over obstacles and adds significance to all you do.” Norman Vincent Peale

Get Support- An abundance of drops of water and numerous streams may come together to build the momentum of a waterfall. The more support you get the better able you are to build and maintain the momentum of enthusiasm.

End the Day in a Sea of Fulfillment and Rejuvenate- When you have given every drop of enthusiasm there is to give you may feel drained and exhausted. But reflection on the actions of the day can soon be overcome with a sense of fulfillment. This fulfillment helps to rejuvenate the spirit (along with a good night’s sleep).

Enjoy the beauty of what was experienced in that one day. As the waterfall tumbles with enthusiasm it once again comes to a place of peace and fulfillment where it has accomplished what it has set out to do. Enjoy the beauty. Look into the Sea of Fulfillment and see the reflection of just how capable you are…. Starting Now!

To tie it all together enjoy this 3 minute video Behind the Waterfall by Natural States. A real treat!

Beth Tabak of www.StartingNowCoaching.com is 100% committed to small business coaching and personal life coaching. She coaches big thinkers to be unlimited, stand out in the crowd, and experience the vastness of their abilities. Stop by to see all that is available to you, connect with Beth through social networking, and say ‘hello’.

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Overcoming Procrastination in 5 Simple Steps

Monday, March 1st, 2010

Overcoming procrastination can be one of the hardest things to do since the people who need to do this the most always delay in taking action. Procrastination is a serious example of an ‘epic’ lack of motivation which the longer it is allowed the more deeply rooted it becomes.

This ’social disease’ can be and is the ‘killer’ of many dreams and goals. The only and most logical cure to be found is learning to how to better motivate yourself to take the necessary actions.

Discovering how to stop procrastinating can be broken down into simply breaking old and often times psychologically based habits. Here is a simple 5 step plan to help you overcome your lack of motivation and take charge of your life once again.

Sort and Prioritize

One common reason for procrastination is due to the overwhelming feeling you can get from having too many things that need to be done. This feeling can severely hinder your ability to motivate yourself. The problem can be handled in a logical manner by sorting out your ‘to do’ list. By prioritizing them into a workable list according to their urgency, time deadlines or overall importance you now know where to start.

Simplify Tasks

Some ‘undertakings’ may be intimidating due to the enormity of the goal itself. Something like this typically involves many steps and/or tasks to be completed before the goal is reached therefore it is common for people to put it off. The best approach for this is to break this goal down into a series of steps and focus only on the immediate task at hand. The result will be since your focus is ONLY on the immediate task you are not allowing the size of the overall project to intimidate or overwhelm you.

Peak Performance Time

Everybody has got a particular time of the day or night that they find themselves the most productive. This may be due to your energy level or perhaps a there are less demands upon your time. It matters not what the reasons are just determine when it is the easiest time to motivate yourself and schedule time to complete some of those tasks you have been putting off.

A quick note here and something to be consider with any of these steps is perhaps only schedule a little at a time. As you begin to see results it will be easier for you to motivate yourself to tackling even larger tasks or goals. With results comes confidence and a surge of energy to accomplish even more.

Schedule the Time

We spoke of scheduling some tasks during your most productive hours and that should give you the added energy or ‘edge’ to make some progress. Well a ’spin’ on that would be to take a task and simply schedule it into your ‘work’ day for completion like any other item you may have scheduled for that day.

By incorporating it into the ‘routine’ of your day you are NOT allowing it to build up the psychological barrier that develops when it is repeatedly ‘put off’ till later. This barrier builds up a lack of motivation and a feeling of dread. By scheduling and completing it within the course of a busy day its seems easier since no barrier or dread has a chance to build.

Just Do It!

Sometimes it works best just to grab an assignment or unfinished task you are not too fond of and simply complete it without any prior ‘dread’ or anticipation. As I mentioned earlier our lack of motivation offer stems from a psychological barrier and it is normally one we create ourselves. The more we ‘dread’ something the more dreadful it actually becomes and this feeling is something we create.

Overcoming procrastination is simply a matter of breaking old habits and restoring your lack of motivation to accomplish even the smallest of tasks. Learning how to stop procrastinating draws parallels with learning how to motivate yourself since motivation is the root of the problem. The simple 5 step plan reviewed above targets restoring your drive. By ‘chipping away’ at these old habits new ones can then be developed. The results will allow you to once again become the ‘pilot’ of your life instead of simply a passenger along for the ride. This will now put the goals and dreams that have eluded you in the past back within your reach.

TJ Philpott is an author and Internet entrepreneur based out of North Carolina.
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The Secrets For Defeating Procrastination

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009

Overcoming procrastination is a straightforward, yet at the same time, a difficult thing to do. Unfortunately, it’s not that straightforward unless we build up an iron will. In the meantime, we might be required to to come up with strategies that ease our transition through changes. Here are six tactics that can help:

Utilize obvious reminders – One of the most difficult parts of forming new behavior is actually remembering to perform the new habits we are trying to lay in place! A habit, by definition, is something we do mechanically. When we operate on autopilot, we might actually not recall the promises we’ve made to ourselves. We might grab a cookie and start gnawing mindlessly on it, even though we promised to keep away from sugar. Or we might recognize, 10 minutes before bed time, that we never did find time to work out that day.

The easiest way to defeat this absentmindedness is to place visible reminders in obvious areas. Try using vibrantly colored sticky notes and highlighted markers. You can even get inventive and add stickers and sparkles if it helps capture your notice. Next add them up on the refrigerator, the bathroom mirror, the dashboard of your car – wherever you might need a little wake up call. But, try to limit the notes to no more than 3 or 4, and be certain to change them around recurrently so you don’t become habituated to them and begin to forget them.

You can also produce a planner for yourself and get into the habit of using it each day. A economical, minimal planner is a 6″x9″ lined, spiral-bound notebook. Each evening, put aside 10 or 15 minutes to write all of your responsibilities for the following day, including the new habits you are trying to take on. Set the notebook in an easy to see location, and you can even use a vibrantlyvibrantly highlighted “READ ME” reminder on the front so it is the primary thing you note when you wake up the next day. Over time you will get into the habit of your new routine and notice you don’t need the reminders anymore.

Imagine the outcome – We habitually steer clear of tasks that we feel won’t be enjoyable. Instead, take some time to think about why you will enjoy your activities, even if it’s merely the outcome that makes you feel inspired. State your reasons aloud, and affirm the reasons why you should get moving. For example, “I enjoy working out because it makes me feel good, I can let go tension, and I get that great endorphin rush!” Then take a few minutes to picture the outcome in your mind. See yourself with a sturdy, firm, healthy body. Imagine yourself having plenty of energy to run around and play with the kids. See yourself in a slinky new dress and heels, or a swanky new suit. After just a few minutes of these visualizations, you may suddenly realize the wisdom of huffing and puffing and sweating for 30 minutes and make that workout a priority.

Psych yourself up – Repeat after me: “I want to do this. I can do this. I deserve to do this. I am powerful enough to create the life I want. I refuse to be held back by my fears and negative habits. I am capable of so much more than I’ve done so far. No matter how successful I get, there is always room for improvement and growth. Yes I can, yes I can, yes I can!” Using affirmations like this, you will feel your resolve grow stronger, and your enthusiasm develop, and you will actually look forward to taking the steps that lead you down the path to accomplishment.

Just five minutes – If you’re still struggling to get moving, swear to yourself that you will begin working on your tasks and stick with it for just five minutes. Five minutes is nearly nothing! Tell yourself that you can do anything for five minutes, and just start. If you know that you just have to work on it for five minutes, it will appear less overpowering and that will frequently be enough to push you into action. After the five minutes are up, give yourself consent to stop if you really want to. More often, however, you will make a decision to keep going. It’s the start that holds so many of us back.

Reward yourself – Once you’ve gotten started and worked on your goals for at least 5 minutes, give yourself a pat on the back! This can be spoken praise, or an actual material reward like a new book or knick-knack you’ve been wanting to buy. If money are tight, your rewards don’t have to cost anything; how about a 15 minute bubble bath or a visit to a favorite website? In fact, make it a priority to applaud yourself often. Encourage yourself just like you would a best friend or loved one who is working on making their dreams come true. Become your own cheerleader!

Consistency wins the game – Keep in mind that forming new habits and overcoming procrastination is a moment to moment decision. It would be great if we could just decide to change and have it be so, but it doesn’t typically work that way. We need to become conscious of our self-defeating actions and thoughts, and make the effort to alter them moment to moment, day to day, week to week. In fact, keep that in mind when setting your goals. Rather than setting yourself up for failure by vowing, “From now on I will…,” turn it around and say, “Just for today, I will…” This makes change less threatening and you won’t feel so pressured to be flawless.

In the end, it is our willingness to keep getting up all over again after we’ve stumbled or fallen that will eventually strengthen our resolve and direct us along the path to success. So, if you have been struggling with procrastination, don’t have no hope! Just set yourself up for success by developing strategies that will blast your excuses right out of the water.

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Stop Procrastination And Start Doing

Friday, July 24th, 2009

Overcoming Procrastination

Time after time, I am on different internet forums, and I end up communicating with people who want to start a blog or website and are, “going to get started soon”, “are thinking about it”, or “still going over my options”, and so on. While a bit of planning and research will serve you well when starting any project, oftentimes, months later, these same people are “still thinking about it”.

While there are many reasons that may stop someone from even starting a project they have in mind, fear being the most obvious, the idea of perfectionism seems to be a strong runner up. Yet the only way to overcome these fears and stop procrastination, is to start doing.

How To Stop Procrastination

Stop Thinking About Doing It.
There is a proverb, “Tomorrow is often the busiest day of the week.”
There is no such thing as the perfect plan. In fact, you can spend so much time being concerned about getting everything right and perfect that it wears your initial enthusiasm down. The end result being is that time passes and so does the perfect moment.
Yes, you should want to be reaching for excellence, but who starts out with being excellent?
Excellence will only come from trial and error.

Just Make a Decision And Start Following Through

Forget trying to be a perfectionist. In its pathological form, perfectionism is an unhealthy belief. It stems from the notion that, “anything I do that is less than perfect is not worth doing”. This way of thinking leads to one becoming paralyzed and then immobilized from from even starting your project.
And so you end up:

* never launching that website or blog because you just can’t find the perfect template.
* spending way too much time tweaking your design because you want it to be perfect, while neglecting your content, which to the search engines, is far more important.
* never posting that article, because it’s not yet perfect.
* never going forth with that money making idea because….

I think that you get the idea.

To start overcoming procrastination, just start with something that is good enough, and then keep working to improve on it. Don’t just tweak ideas. Make a basic plan, take action, and then start tweaking and improving the actual results

When I started my first blog, my site rankings were in the millions, within six months, with a bit of dedication, I was in the top 100,000 and now its under 50,000 and still going up.

Just Take The First Step
Getting started on a project is not a life and death decision. If you want to stop procrastination, let go of the fear, stop thinking and start doing, and forget starting out with, “its got to be perfect”

I’ll leave you with the words of an actual doer, who was not a perfect person, and all his decisions were not perfect. Yet he is an example to be followed today.

“You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”
Martin Luther King, Jr.

Be Fearless
Billy Ojai

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